So I'll keep it short and sweet.
My boyfriend loves to post to several online forums. Some of them, the guys on there can be pretty raunchy. Seeing that im insecure and i know it (needlessly he's the love of my life i plan to marry him), I monitor his postings. Is it right? no. Do I still do it? Unfortunately... yes.
He said, "I know a girl thats on the backpages, she's a stripper and escort, i get free drinks and blow jobs from time to time"
Men on there have been known to joke and exaggerate like that... but i can't help but feel scared to know if its true or not.
Should i ask? Confront him? Im not ashamed to admit I look at the stuff, not proud of myself but i need to know.
- Yes, you have toVote A
- No, its nothingVote B
- Mzcoco is untrusting for looking gimme results.Vote C
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This is a little tricky. If you do nothing you can only trust in who you fell for and brush this off as a joke of sorts. If you confront and ask him most likely he going to say its not true and you'll just have to trust that too (but doubts may arise too, how do you prove you're not a cheat?)
Asking now I believe will only aggravate him, I would be annoyed myself. However you two are separate people (to me) and because you love each other he might understand you insecurities and be more sensitive. To be honest MzCoco on here you seem like a really good partner and because of that I feel like your OH was most likely joking or exaggerating.
I say because its on your mind ask, its better that just wondering, but no worries it probably fine :)0