She has a boyfriend who she likes a lot but enjoys attention and gives me attention back as well. We used to text almost daily even up to 8/9 hours a day. She will go alone with me as a friend if I ask her. She knows quite well that I like her. She'll do romantic things as long as they are platonic.
I'm pretty sure she wants me just as a friend and she had made that clear on several occasions, we're extremely close to each other and have extremely good chemistry but sadly she was already taken when I had first met her.
I love this girl and I want to be with her later in life. I can wait for years to be with her.
I'm not sure how to behave with her so that I have a chance with her when she breaks up. I've stopped giving her attention since a week. Should I mildly flirt with her/ remain the way we were/ or remain as a normal friend whilst giving her very less attention.. Grrh I don't know.. I just don't want get to see me as a brother or a friend or anything once she breaks up, I want to have a chance with with her one day.
What should I do? Im pretty depressed these days over this
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I can relate. Do what's necessary to feel at peace. I had to end the friendship until he was single again. It was a bold move and he wasn't happy about it, but to feel sane, I had to do it. I felt used and hurt and knew his girlfriend was jealous of us. They broke up a few hours after I told him, but he wants space from me... I told him to take his time. Maybe it seems harsh, but take this relationship by the horns and don't let her make you feel insecure. I think I did him a favor by forcing him to evaluate what it means to be in a relationship. People tell me I was wrong, but I know how I felt before I told him and how much better I feel now. If she is making you feel uncomfortable, back away, and she'll be faced with the reality of what she's lost. It may be what she needs to see what a great guy you are and realize that you are the one she should be with. Good luck.0