The girl I like has saggy breasts, and she's 25?

[Anonymous]

Ok, lets just first start this question off by me saying. That I don't just look at physical features for when it comes to dating women. I'm very much interested in this girls personality, but I'm considered what you call a "boob man", and it's one of my favorite features that needs to be up to par. I've been seeing this girl for the last two months, and we have a great connection, and her cup size is around a C+. I've dated quite a few other girls who were C's-DD's, and they had perky breasts, but this girl sadly did not. When we ended our date this last weekend. We ended up going back to my place, and sleeping together. Despite the rest of her body being incredibly tone, and shaped quite well. Her breasts are just overly saggy, and I'm wondering if I'm a bad person for ending things; based off the idea her breasts just really are a big physical feature to which causes me to find her a lot less attractive?

[aamina]

they could be saggy for many reasons one of which being she used to be heavier and lost a lot of weight quickly. she can perk them up by working out

anyway in all honesty we all have things we like/dislike and can with/without and we are all a bit shallow in our own way. for example i couldn't date a guy who has a weird penis lol i'd get grossed out

so if it really bothers you then just stop leading her on and stop talking to her. make something up to let her down nicely and just end it. if you have to just tell her there's someone else. sometimes we just don't like someone enough to see past their flaws and that just means you aren't for each other. if you're able to see past her flaws then you do really like her.

it's your life you can choose who you want to date. I know a lot of chicks are going to tell you off for this but whatever it's your life.

[Izzy2102]

Well I'm not sure what you want us to say. If you feel that strongly about it what other options are there. Do you just want us to agree with you, that you're reacting appropriately?

Our culture has developed a very specific ideal for breast. Many that you may perceive as saggy may not actually be but just shaped differently than from what is seen ideal.

And ya I think it's very shallow to leave for just that

[SpiderPig]

Yep. You're shallow. Everyone has preferences. But when someone is an all around great person that you could see yourself being with, otherwise. In my opinion this makes you shallow. Especially when you've been seeing her for a couple months.

Break it off. You've lead her on long enough... too long.

Good luck finding your perfect boobs.

[MissPhilippines]

this!

[Asker]

I guess I can see it from different perspectives, but in the end. You are probably right. Thanks for the honesty :)

[AidenBlue]

Yup, and if you do find perfect boobs - they will give way in time. You'll have to keep replacing with a 20-24 year old every 4 years. This is not a sustainable model.

[Anonymous]

I am with you. I am a boob guy too and I have stopped dating women for the same reason. One girl had really saggy boobs and she was only a b-cup!

[Asker]

I guess it's personal preference, and women take offense to it sometimes. Physical attraction is a big part to men, and their relationship with women. It's not truly being shallow, but just a personal preference.

[vanessax05]

If you end things with someone because of something like that, and let's be honest now her tits aren't sagging like a 95year old, then honestly you don't deserve that woman and truth is she's better off without you. Clearly you consider yourself a picture of perfection so why don't you post an image for us all to take a look at and we'll see how many flaws of yours we can pick out.

[Mgoods]

I think you should leave her. Don't tell her why. Make up a good excuse, blame yourself and just leave her be.

I can't, in good conscience, advise you to stay with her; she doesn't deserve that at all.

[parisfox]

That really sucks for the girl... nobody likes saggy boobs, especially when they're 25. It is a jerk move for you to end things with her just because of her boobs, it is "shallow" of you but hey, you need to find what makes you happy

[Themoonlitsky]

Hey, at least she has boobs! If you both had a great connection, and you really like her then it shouldn't matter. She may have "saggy" boobs, but it's not her fault, and there's nothing she can do about it. She's probably self conscious about it. It's a jerk thing to do to end things just because of her boobs.

[Asker]

Isn't physical attraction a long term contemplation for a relationship though? I'm thinking long term, and not short term in this matter.

[Mesonfielde]

On the long term, everyone's breasts get saggy. I don't see your point...

[Themoonlitsky]

exactly, if you're physically attracted to her whole body minus her boobs, that's still sexual attraction. Agreeing with Mesonfielde, all boobs get saggy eventually.

[Asker]

Eh, even though they'll eventually have taken a tole by gravity. It's still nice for when a woman starts somewhere on top, or at least the bare minimum of being in the middle. Starting lowing, and finishing low is a no go.

[Themoonlitsky]

Ugh, you're comments just disgust me. If this is a make or break in a relationship for you, then you have some underlying issues. No one is perfect. She deserves better.

[PrettyBama]

She's probably super self conscious and she trusted you enough to let you see them and you weren't worthy of her fun bags.

[Asker]

Guess I'll just have to move onto a girl who has a better set of tits. Glad there's plenty of other girls in DC.

[PrettyBama]

Lol make sure you ask to see them before you ask her out

[knotme]

That's messed, but since you aren't physically attracted to her; yea end it

[still_waiting]

Okay, that's fine, but how would you feel if she had awesome tits and you liked her a lot but she broke it off with you because your dick isn't up to par?

[fun-weird-guy]

I never heard of a C+ cup size

[Asker]

She's a C cup, and beyond. Not knowing her exact size. I said C+ to be safe.

[YouAholic]

My sister had big saggy boobs sense she was like 11. I feel for her lol

[TheNewClassic]

Giving up so many good qualities for something like saggy boobs? Are you fucking kidding me?

I hope every chick you're gonna date is gonna have saggy boobs lol

[Averageusername]

Stop crying man up

[spiffy11]

Not a bad thing at all a bonus to those of us who find saggy incredibly sexy

[Anonymous]

If you feel that way let her go so she can be with a guy who likes saggy breasts

[Anonymous]

So you are willing to dump all there is between you, the fact that you like her and have been dating just for her boobs? Well if you are willing to do it go on.

I just gotta say that if you dump girls that easily (because of a small imperfect spot on her body) then I hope your dick is also at the same level as the boobs you expect the girl you want to date, have. And with that I mean super thick and hard master cock. Or accept if a girl wants to dump you for your small and unsatifying penis.

[Asker]

It's more that it causes my physical attraction towards her to be distraught. In the sense, that I would be less inclined to sleep with her in the future, and that it's not like a mole, but something to which is obviously something that is difficult for me to be ok with long term.

[Asker]

Also, as for my penis size. I'm above average, but I get your point. However, long term it could be somewhat of an issue, and for some. It's a trait to which would be on the higher need list than want.

[Opinion Owner]

Boobs really make things so difficult for you? It would be 'difficult' for you to keep going with her? Are boobs only thing you are attracted to in a girl?

[Anonymous]

Yes it does make you look like a shallow douche. Obviously the shape of her breasts are more important to you than her personality, her intelligence and what she actually looks like otherwise (face, rest of body) etc.

[Asker]

I'd rather be shallow than see such things over, and over.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope your future wife leaves you the second you can't get it up without viagra. Hopefully that'll be soon.