I am a 41 year old guy with a crush on a 20 year old girl. I am in no way a perv, kiddy fiddler or paedo but is it wrong of me to feel this way about a lady young enough to be my daughter and would it be wrong of me to let her know my feelings for her, or even ask her out?
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I can relate. I am 39 and have had this amazing 20 year old woman come into my life and she is crazy about me. I entered into the whole thing very casual and relaxed figuring she would move on fairly quick. She started showing signs of becoming attached, and I let my guard down. Now I am becoming attached too. We are both fully aware of how others view the age difference, but we both feel this wasn't a choice. We just found ourselves instantly attracted to one another. Things in the meantime have just been getting better and better.
However, with that said, I will always have that feeling she may outgrow me and this situation. I mean, she is still maturing. Because of that I decided to simply enjoy the time she gives me now and not worry about what is going to happen down the road.0