I feel ashamed of my body. My boyfriend said I shouldn't wear bikini because I don't look good on it. Probably I don't wanna go to the beach anyway but if I did would you be disgusted seeing me? Please tell me honestly how bad my body is!! But not too mean
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I am going against what many say, but I think that the truth is that a bikini is not what you should wear.
A bikini is a suit that says "I have a great body and I want everyone to see it. Look at me!" And it tends to accentuate the bad on those that have bad. Like creating "muffin tops" over the brief part. A one piece that does not accentuate your imperfections can still be very pretty and sexy.
I do not believe in the "only model types should be exposed" line of thinking. I would be perfectly happy going to a nude beach with you as you are (which is fine). But the type of swim suit you are showing is one that is made for the "only model types". You want to look great, so go with something that does not call attention in the wrong way.
I hope that your boyfriend meant it in the way I am saying. If so, he was trying to be helpful and you should not listen to the comments that say he is bad and wrong. But if he meant something else, then I would agree with the other comments about him. Depends on why he said it. But I think that honestly, you should heed what he said.
And I was not just trying to pump you up. I honestly would be fine going to a nude beach with you. You are attractive, just not in the way that a bikini is made for.1