I have know this girl and we were in the same class but we were not really friends just a colleague. When I was in grade 6 i moved to another country and we haven't seen each other for ten years. when i made a Facebook account i started adding old friends. I didn't add her but she added me 2 years ago. since she added me i should have started the convo right? well i didn't coz I had many things going in my life and i was expecting her to start the conversation. 2 years and we haven't talked. to be honest she caught my attention recently i started to be attracted to her for no reason. how do I start a very casual conversation with her without coming off as desperate. she might have interest in me since she always sends me a game request to help her. dont get me wrong but in this game you only can ask 3 friends to help you and i am pretty much sure that many of her friends play it. so why me. and all of a sudden her profile climbs up in the chat list and we didn't talk at all, may be she is stalking me?
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When she 'Added you 2 years ago' yes-----You should have taken the initiation of starting the convo. I always had done this on FB, even if it was a "Hi" to let them know I am a friend. And Now you find------2 years and no talk.
Go on FB and send her a message. She probably will be pleasantly surprised. When you see her lite on, begin your beguine by chatting. Just start out "Hi, how are you? Long time no talk..." and go from there. Also tell her about the game she has asked you to play, and perhaps you May be interested.
No, I don't think she is 'Stalking' but just wants 'Talking.' Don't over think it.
It's your call, your choice. You say you are Now 'Attracted' to her. Go for it now. No more games.
I don't think you are 'Delusional,' but Now have to be 'Conversational.'
Good luck. xx1