All my best friends have had boyfriends and I am the only one out of all of them who hasn't even been close to a relationship. It feels really weird that they all get to experience what having a boyfriend means and I've never even kissed a guy. Is it weird that I haven't had a boyfriend yet?
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I haven´t had a girlfriend, and I'm 25; here's why.
When in highschool you make idiotic decisions, I saw a lot of people in stupid relationships, they were just with a partner just because everybody else was. So you know how it is, they fight they separate they get back together, and on and on...
That kind of stupid situations never got my interest, until a few years ago.
Know I understand that if you want your bf/gf you have to be self confident enought to share an important part of your life with that person, every situation, the good ones and the bad ones.
I don´t think your situation is bad or abnormal, in fact I believe you are a very mature and wise person for waiting, if that's what you have done.
Maybe you have tried and haven´t succeded but don´t rush in, you are still very young and you can have lots of fun without a bf, enjoy that time of your life.
A last word of advice, don't get desperate and rush for a relationship, specially if you want to be with an older guy than you, lets say max 5 years.
A lot of older guys mess with young desperate girls and really hurt them, just be smart and relaxed.0