What can I do to make my waning relationship work?

When boyfriend says he loves you but he never calls nor text


Most Helpful Guy

  • Without many details it is always hard to truly give a good answer to any question. In general always remember that the more you try to hold onto something the more it will try to escape. The old proverbial saying "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.."

    If you really want to know what love is try to remember this one Biblical passage... It will make life so much easier, it applies to not only you but to the partner you are looking to make a life with.

    1 Corinthians 13:4-8

    New International Version (NIV)

    4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

    8 Love never fails.


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What Guys Said 1

  • Call or text him and make it known that you would like if he calls and text you.


What Girls Said 1

  • Don't take it too personal, some guys aren't the best communicators. Don't have expectations but if you feel you need the calls and messages, maybe you're with the wrong person.

    Maybe he expects/prefer to respond than initiate.