I have nothing against them.
It just pisses me off.
It's like a violation of human rights. It's not fair to them.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Uh.. um... I was actually a shy guy in a bad mood when I wrote this.
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Well, first of all. I was born! That is how I exist lol
But figuratively speaking. Why do I exist as a shy girl? Because fucking idiots decided to make fun of me before and I can't help but feel hurt. And that made me insecure and self-conscious. And I wouldn't imagine myself being more outgoing. I simply dislike clubs, partying till you fall on the floor for being drunk and stuff like that. And most of the guys meet their future girlfriends in the club or out on a bar. I am shy, but once I get to know the person I become talkative.
It's just my personality. And actually I've had popular people gotten to know me and they realized I have a nice personality. EVen one of the popular guys that was my ex-crush thought that, but got friendzoned because of the looks, which honestly I am not upset about, since it's true.
And no we don't freaking cry for justice. I don't
I'm trying to change myself regarding how I see myself and what I want in life and who doesn't like me as I am, I invite him to get out of my life. Simple as that.
And there's a difference between lack of motivation and ambition and being shy. Shy doesn't stop you from getting what you want. My neighbor is a shy and really normal girl and she has the job that she wanted, one of the greatest guys you could ever meet ( And no she didn't go after him, he was crazy about her as she was) and they are getting married in August.
So no, shyness doesn't affect this.
I get what are you saying, but I don't think shyness holds us back. Insecurity does.2