Why do I keep pushing people away?

I could have a crush on you for a year and the minute you like me back I'll find something wrong with you and push you away? What is wrong with me?


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  • Maybe it's because the person you love seems so perfect to you. But once you talk to them and begin to notice their flaws, the false imagine you painted of them in your head is wrong. A lot of the time our judgement is blinded by love and we make up the person to be more that what they really are.

    I was in a similar situation, I'm actually in one now. But I'm actually into her even more.


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  • You may have a commitment phobia, trust issues, or underlying insecurities.


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