Recently i told a friend of mine i would like to date her ( we talk and hang out so much that it already seem to everyone else we where dating) her repsonse to this was that she does not date her friends because things never go back to being the same if things dont work out. Now i respected her standing on the matter ( i will admit that i felt like crap for awhile after) but after thinking about it i have heard of and witnessed this situation quite a few times and i find that this has become more like a lame excuse you tell the teacher when you dont have your home work. Honestly i dont understand how one negative possiblity can out-weigh the positive ones, also the way how people use this statment, I wonder if they even consider the other person's feelings at all people need to stop being afraid of risk, there is always a risk or down side to things and i honestly believe things never stay the same they either progress or they simply disappear. I like to hear from both sides on this and i hope this question was not too long thanks.
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I dont think it bad because even just friendship may not work out so it the same risk iny openion just one is romantic and the other isnt. So it the same and if you dont take the risk you never will knownwhat will happen. I feel it worth the risk to take. But some people say that because they dont wanna hurt the other person feelings so they use that exuse then being honest that they dont feel the same but to me of your friends for a long time and truly know each other had fights seen eaxh other good and bad days then I feel their more of a change it can work out because all your doing know is adding romance to the relationship and that jist perfect and if you both know each other familys and get along wel even better.0