If you've been dating a guy you really like and he likes you too but he's not willing to commit because he's too "busy" and doesn't want anything right now would you hang around and see if he wants something in a few months time? This is stressing me out and I want to know what I should do? Stay with him and see him as usual now and again and hope he stays true to his word and wants to be official? Or look else where and end it? He's driving up this Wednesday to talk about it so I need to give a firm answer by then on where we should go from here.
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This was the issue with one of my previous relationships aswell and I know only how frustrating it is! He wanted his own space and independence and I kept insisting that I wasn't try to force him into a massive commitment and that we could still do the things we liked and wanted, but he seemed to have a commitment anxiety. He just was petrified that being in a relationship meant sacrificing his independence. In the end though it just make me feel unloved and under appreciated because I felt like I was constantly having to reassure him that we could go slow or back off whereas he never told me or made me feel like he wanted me or wanted to commit to me in anyway. I would tell him how you feel, if he really cares about you he will take on board what you've said and how you feel and try to make little changes. If he's not willing to show that he wants to be in a relationship or commit at all then he's probably just not ready or too immature for a relationship right now, and it's not worth you getting upset over because he will only change when he wants to :)0