so 1 girl I know from other friends seemed to like me well. she had a boyfriend but he told me he didn't want her anymore. long st. short I told her and she already knew he didn't want her anymore. the week after she seemed to text me for long time (5 hours). I asked her out for today but actually she has a friend (girl) that I wanted to date first and she would be my second choice (she doesn't know that). so I wanted to meet her so I can met her friend too but she started changing her whole personality and went negative. told me I shouldn't text her but her friends (few hours before she told me to ask a friend to come with me) and kept pushin me away.
Why I don't like that. I've lost 2 chances to get a girl that is worth a relationship.
now that you don't think I gave Fzone signals→ the day we texted a lot I asked her for her friend and that I want to give a good impression towards her friend and get her numba and was a little joking around aswell. I told her that I am there if she wants someone to talk to. why did I fail?
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You saying you wanted to make a good impression on her friend wasn't a good enough friend zoning 'tactic'. I would have assumed you wanted to make a good impression because you want to get along with my friends because you want her to like you because she's friends with ME.
She is your 'girlfriend' afterall. You need to be honest with her and tell her you are dating her but are also dating other women. Or you should dump her if you really don't want to be with her. 'Signs' don't always work.0
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