I'm casually dating this guy for a couple months last night I ran into him at bar with another girl it was so awkward. He came up to me and didn't even kiss me so I knew he was deff with her. Than I seen his friends an hour later and they said they couldn't find him which leads me to believe he went off with her. It bothers me so much cause the night before we were together and he acted so into me and told me we would go on a date on Monday. Now I feel so stupid I know we don't have any commitment to each other but it still hurts.
I also actually texted him casually today to act like I didn't care but this is the first time he never answered my texts back since we have been talking. What should I do?
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To me, the term "casually dating" does NOT imply exclusivity from either of you towards each other, but your situation may be a bit different.
Before I could give you an idea one way or another what to do, the first thing I'd like to know is this. Have either (or preferably both) of you two made any type of comment or suggestion that you two are exclusive? Yes, this does matter. If there was nothing said or even implied that you two are to be exclusive to each other, then you can't hold this against him. If you had a real reason to believe you were exclusive, you are right to be upset, and it may be wise to let him go.
If you were not exclusive, it's a good idea to have a talk with him. Find out his goals and intentions, and see if they match with your goals and intentions. If they do, tell him this upset you, and make it an exclusive relationship. If you're not matching up, walk away.0