We went on three dates in three days. She was so into me telling me you are amazing. We would kiss all the time. And she loved it. We went to a baseball field 3rd date and laid down next to each other. After that night she told me best date she ever had in her life. I asked her to be my gf and she said yes.
So Sun AM comes and its all still good. Told me she could come to my game that evening and was excited to see me. Later that after noon she tells me something with her friend came up and couldn't make it Rain check? . Im like ok no problem.
She than send me this text message ::::
Hey this doesn't mean I don't wanna date you but I feel like we started dating too quick. I was talking to my parents and friends last night and I just need to go on a few dates with you and be myself for a bit. I do really like you but I need to move at molasses speed cuz I keep getting hurt.
What is she telling me? What did I do wrong here? We where having a great time together. To top it all off she is back online dating site and she never replied to me since 3 pm yesterday.
So cheating on me or what? Should I leave her be? I mean too fast? Some people have sex on 1st date. Confused.
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Hate to be the one to point these out but all these scream disinterest:
- "Later that after noon she tells me something with her friend came up and couldn't make it Rain check": She broke a date with unspecified plans last minute.
- "I do really like you but I need to move at molasses speed cuz I keep getting hurt.": To me that's another way of saying "I'm not interested (anymore)."
- "To top it all off she is back online dating site and she never replied to me since 3 pm yesterday.": Nail in the coffin?
From an observer's standpoint it looks pretty obvious but do as you'd like.
If you ask me, if she were really (still) interested these things wouldn't have happened. If you care to listen, my advice is to you is: lick your wounds and move on.0