My girlfriend and I were in an argument and she was going on and on about how much she thought I flirted with other girls and she was on a rampage and wouldn't stop talking. I was trying to defend myself or at least get a word in. I kept saying "Stacy you need to calm down." After saying this like 5 times I reached out and put my hands on her shoulders and kinda raised my voice and said "Stacy, you need to calm the fuck down." I know that wasn't necessary and I regret saying that now and saying it the way I did. She then took my hand and threw it off her shoulder and said "Don't touch me you asshole." and slapped me really hard across the face and pushed me backwards and then ran up to MY ROOM and locked the door. I was just so confused and frustrated that I just didn't even talk to her and went to sleep on my couch. When I got up this morning my bed was made and Stacy was gone.
It's been a day and I still haven't talked to her. When I told my friends about it they told me that I deserved it for yelling that in her face and that I should be a man and go tell her I'm sorry and she might apologize too. I find it weird that she hit me and I have to apologize.
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You should have listened to her instead of just telling her to calm down. You shouldn't have grabbed her shoulders or sworn at her.
She shouldn't have hit you or taken over your room.
You both need to grow up, discuss things reasonably without physical contact or anger bubbling over, and apologise to each other.2