women never gave me a chance so i stopped trying. Women are so boring and vain to me now. I know all women arent, but im always attracted to the wrong person.
(i went out with a hot girl, never was i turned on, years ago i would have died to be with a girl like)
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As a dude who has done the things you are considering, i can tell you, it is a mistake.
I feel like your problem is the fact that you are disconnected with women. You have an emotional expectation from women, that seems reasonable to you, but that is a huge turn- off for women.
I was disconnected from the spirit of women for most of my life. Only now am I beginning to see the beauty of women, and the fact that I cannot live without one in my life.
Also, the fact that you are even willing to "switch sides" speaks volumes about you. Would you really date a man? It sounds like you have sexual desires and urges that are a priority, while you are unable, or unwilling to see the flaws, and unreasonable personality traits that exist within you.
Your heart is utterly closed off. If you would allow the femininity of a good woman to penetrate, and melt your heart, you would never consider aligning your soul with another man's, however effeminate he is.
For me, it has taken years of painful introspection, and being alone, for nearly twenty years, for me to come to realize just how much women mean to me. The same realization can be yours, but you must want it above all else.0