Ok, here's the deal, this girl I work with, just graduated from a neighboring high school, her and I have gotten to be really good friends. I like this girl. Thing is, she's got a baby. She told me the backstory as to how and why she's got a kid, and she's 19, a year older than I am, but anyway, her ex used her, and after he got what he wanted, he took off and left her pregnant, and every single one of her friends and even my friends will back her up on it. Here's the question. Since I do like her and all, should I ask her out on a date? Yes, or no? Feel free to leave comments, opinions, advice, etc. Thanks.
- Yes, ask her out!Vote A
- No, man. Forget it.Vote B
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As a girl im gonna answer this honestly. Im sure she would LOVE to be with you. But if i was 19 and had a baby i would assume that every single guy that dates me, wants to be the new father of my child. If you dont plan on marrying her someday, dont do it. She might think that you want to be the new father of her kid and then once u guys break up (if you do) she's going to assume u left her because of the kid and blah blah blah. I know that its hard not to date her because you really like her and im sorry, but if you dont want to be a father right now its not a good idea. Plus that kid is gonna think of you as a dad, and if anything goes wrong, itll be bad not only for her, but for the child too :(. So if you really like her and think itll last really long and you want to be a father, go for it :) If not, then dont. Remember now that she's got a kid you're not only part of HER life, but part of the kids life too :/0