So i been seeing this guys. I honestly don't know how he really feels we text like 24/7 BUT we hang out 2x a wk for like 2-3hrs. We just started to hold hands , i held his hand first, but we recently been talking about kissing. So overall, we hold hands but when we talk it's like... He doesn't really like me. Maybe he is nervous. But I'm kinda tired of waiting. I really do like him but i feel like we are dragging now. We went to see them nyc skyline it was pretty romantic but I don't know i feel like it's just drag what do i do. What would/did you do if you were in this position. What should i do. I'm starting to just slowly friend zone him, i feel like he's friend zoning me.
ALSO how long into a relationship did you start to kiss?
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So, if guys were feeling that way, it means, they are not really sure of themselves in the circumstances when hanging out with a girl, so they try to be more cautious and conservative. So, if I was in your situation, I would make him sure that you want the kiss and you want to go out with him. In order for you to do this, you got to be flirtatious with him the next time you guys meet, and at the same time, flirt with him about kissing and going out with him. Then he will notice your flirtatious ways, and he will know for sure that you would want to go out with him and you would want a kiss. Then, he can be secure about initiating those things, because he is sure in his cautious mind that you want it so that he would give it to you since he's now sure and not as much cautious. That's how the way it should work. Now for your last question, usually relationships can vary depending on what type of chemistry a man and a woman have for each other which is dependent on the personalities for both of them. So, relationships lasting for a kiss vary. Some relationships last for a day then usually they will kiss while sometimes, they can take a year (which is rare, but I seen it happen) before they can kiss, which would probably be the max. So, just take your first kiss when you feel that the time is right for you and your partner. Cheers.0