So I ran into my ex bf a few days ago I haven't seen him since the break 8mths ago, we exchanged a generic conversation of how are you's and he gave me a hug and we said bye... I told my bf in a conversation how my day was and I ran into my ex, he flipped a brick got all moody with me and acted weird, honestly I don't think I've done anything wrong! :/ what to do?
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You would have done the same if it was other way round. He sees it like a bad sign. Everyone knows that one cannot remain as friends with ex.
He might have over reacted due to several reasons. Obviously insecurities is one of them.
But if you take a vow that you will never meet ur ex, then he will act normal again.
There is nothing wrong with meeting people but tell me... how will you handle human psychology which are filled with insecurities?
If you are repeating this in future, it will become trouble some.
But my logical point is that... If you know that it is bothering him and also your bf is more important than your ex, then why would you wanna do those things which would hamper any healthy relationship?
I have seen people ruining relationships like this. Hence i am telling you , even if meeting or hugging your ex isn not wrong , still avoid doing that. Testing anyone's patience is not good.0