Not really sure how to feel about this…Recently, after 8 months of no work, and me paying the rent and bills our entire relationship pretty much, my boyfriend finally got a job in June. We were looking to relocate from New York to Massachusetts, and he did so in June.
In the interim, while he gets situated so I can move as well to MA, I am still in NY working my job that I’ve been at 4 years. We are now only seeing each other on the weekends until I quit my job and move up there. I let him use my car since he needs to get out to the suburbs for work, and I live and work in NYC
and take the subway. He drove me back to NY Sunday night and slept over and left for work in MA at 4 in the morning. He told me later that day that he took my credit card and went to the ATM and took out $200 because he had no money, and that his father deposited $200 into my acct on behalf of him that day.
That’s all well and good, but what gave him the right to just take $ out of my acct without discussing it with me? And for the record, it’s 2 days later and I see no deposit yet from his dad...
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Wow that's not cool. Do you mind if I ask his background and ethnicity? I only ask because some men from different cultures feel everything you have is theirs.1