I guess It's kind of impossible, like one in a million, right?
I posted this question in yahoo website, but I think I might find a help here too :)
so the story is, I'm not allowed to date!, but I fell for this guy and we've been in a relationship for a year, but a week ago, my older sister found out that I'm dating, and she forced me to break up with him, telling me it's not a good age to fall in love, and high school love doesn't last, and gave me a lot of examples about her old friends in highschool !, and she told me, that If he actually wants me, he must wait 6 years, untill we graduate from college
6 years, he might date a million girls, or fall in love with a dozen :\
I trust him, he loves me so much, he gave me an amzaing year in my mesrible life, but no one knows what happens in 6 years
we talked today, he told me " It's hard for me to wait 6 years without you, can't talk to you, can't see you, it's too hard, I want to wait, I'll try my best to bear it, what in my heart can't be erased "
and he asked me to at least be friends, but to be honest, I don't think my sister will actually accept something like that!
I wan't somebody to actually tell me what to do, opinions, anything, I need help, I'm so tired, I can't eat, sleep, stop thinking
the problem is, I really can't get away from the idea, that I really want to marry him, and he gave me all the reasons to be like this
I don't want illusions, I want someone to just talk to me, tell me what to do
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No, this is YOUR life, and if you want to date him DO IT... my sister married her High School sweetheart, they've been together 11 years now, and have an adorable daughter. Just because it doesn't work out for some people, doesn't mean it won't work out for you. If you leave him because your sister told you too and not because you wanted to... you will regret it for a LONG time.
And if it doesn't work out in the long run... and least you gave it a Chance!
I am telling you that if you really care for this guy, get him back!!!1