I'll admit, I'm a little superficial and mostly go after guys I find attractive. I can't help it even though I seem to be the one chasing the guy. These types never seem to pursue me or just give slight interest and I get so excited. Maybe I come off as too eager
Anyways the guys I find OK looking like me but I brush them off because they don't give me that lust feeling. They're actually better guys than the ones I go after but by the time I realize that I feel so bad for brushing the guy off and I lost my chance.
I'm 19 and have never had a bf. How can I stop making looks initially everything?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you would do well to realize that initial attraction isn't the only kind of attraction. When you get an okay looking guy with a great personality, their personality will work its wonders and you will start seeing them as more than just okay looking. Start going for the guys who will treat you well.1
Most Helpful Girl
Try going after the okay-looking guys. Physical attraction is important, so don't go for guys you aren't attracted to, but believe me, a good personality can take an okay-guy to super-hot. It's happened to me. And maybe play a little hard-to-get, although honestly I'm terrible at that because I hate playing games.2