I think that I'm a beautiful, smart and funny person. I always feel attracted to handsome men, instantly. But the thing is that almost every guy that looks like that is a child. At least every single one I met until today. They are not on my intelectual level, they don't want the same thing as I want, which is a serious and healthy relationship. How can I change this? I'm tired of only be attracted to the same types of guys. I am not being able to make myself feel attracted to the right men.
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You need to figure urself out first. You also have to remember that they turn into soft guys for you, cause they actually care. Which is something you have yet to evolve to understand. Some people will want the same things as you, some wont. Some will be 10% to what you want, other will be 90%. But there will never been a 100% pure answer. You have to give a little to take, and so do they, which I don't thing you understand just yet, by the way you are complaining in your question.
Saying your attracted to "this type of guy" and then a month later your not, clearly shows that you don't find yourself attractive, or else you would always find them attractive, especially since you have agreed to his courtship, aka going out on dates with him. There is something inside of you, that you need to figure out.0