I'm a really OCD gamer, and I feel like that the reason that girls don't like me is because they think that gamer guys won't care about them and care more about their games. If I had a girlfriend, I would put HER first, and video games later. Or is being a gamer a turn off or something. I dunno, you tell me.
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As a gamer myself, I find myself more attracted to guys who game, but that's just my opinion. I like a guy who will play games with me and help me become a better gamer through it.
Actually dating a gamer is tricky. I've dated gamer guys who have paused the game to text me but I've also dated gamers who don't reply for hours because he's caught up in whatever he's playing. While it can get annoying I've found myself used to it and am able to look past it. I think you just have to find the right girl who will be able to put up with gamer habits. (:0