I've been seeing this guy and I feel like he just doesn't care. He is unreliable and I feel like he only wants to do something late at night these days. Last time he was late with seeing me because he said he had to go to a meeting. I got angry and told him to not worry about catching up as it sounded like an excuse because he doesn't even work. But it turns out his mum is very religious and wanted him to go to the religious meeting, but it was on a Friday night. So I don't know if that happens? And I was meant to see him tonight but he calls me at 5pm and asks if he can see me a bit later because his friend called and said they have soccer training. I then said why would you all the sudden have soccer training now and he said my friend just called me about it.
He usually has it tomorrow night (Thursday night where I am). I told him I feel like he is making excuses and he said I'm not and I'm not cancelling I'm just making it later. I feel really pissed off now because I feel like I'm always waiting around for him. Does the meeting thing and the training thing sound honest to you? Are they things that happen? I'm not religious and I don't play sport so I don't know. I know we aren't in a relationship but I feel like he is just playing with my emotions, there's a few other things as well that he has done that makes me wonder
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Honestly he could be lying or he could be telling the truth but to me it sounds like you dont trust him either way i think that you should reevaluate wether you really want to be with him if it does end up progressing with him do you think that you will believe him when he says he's busy or will you still think he's lying? if you dont trust and feel pretty sure that he's not being honest i say you should drop it and save yourself some trouble0