m with a guy right now... that i have sex with.. we hang out... we go on dates now and then and he constantly tells me how much he cares for me.
I always tell him "me too"... most of the time.. just because it sounds really great and i do enjoy spending time with him..
but i don't feel like i yearn for him.. and i think thats how its supposed to be but everyone keeps telling me not to let go of him cause he's such a "good guy"... which he is... he's understanding and kind and literally has every quality I would want in a man..
i just don't feel that feeling inside..
i guess my question is.. do you end a relationship if you felt hat person is trying really hard and your not as into it...
or do you wait it out with a good person and fall in love...
should love be instant... or does it take time...
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Dont know what you got till its gone!
But I see where this guy is going wrong; he is too available and thereby has no mystery or challenge about him and you are bored.
I imagine if he didn't reply to all your texts or calls right away, had other things to do from time to time and generally kept you wondering/guessing that you would be more into him.
Seems that showing genuine and sincere interest in a woman can be a sure fire way to turn her off. Sad.
Maybe you should let this poor guy go so he can find a woman who will appreciate the fact he doesn't try to game her?0