Let me try to get straight to the point:
-met guy through okcupid, dated for a month
-did not have sex
-I went on family trip, his texts became less frequent when I came back
-stood me up on two dates
-stopped responding to my messages
-one week of no contact
-he texts me saying he's sorry, really likes me and owes me
-says he wants to go on dates and take trips
-we set date to spend night together
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Short version he is a jerk.
Long version he is a big fat jerk who thinks he can do what he wants with you. Block him on OKC, your phone and anything else you contact him on, move on, find someone else.
This is not worth the head ache.1