I've noticed few people in my life, even some on GAG who say they aren't attracted to their kind and would never date anyone of their race. To me, that's just weird. A person not finding a certain race attractive makes sense but how can you not be attracted to your own race? Personally, I think many of these people have either had bad experiences with the opposite sex of their race so they generalize or they believe they would look better in front of others for not dating their own kind. I have nothing against people dating others, I would too but to eliminate the possibility to ever date your own kind is strange and ignorant.
I've also noticed that the ones who say they won't date their own kind usually stick to dating just one particular race. As an Indian guy, I've seen few Indian girls who say they aren't attracted to Indian guys yet they only date white guys. They don't go for any other guys like black guys. And I've seen a handful of Indian guys who say they aren't into Indian girls yet they only approach or date white girls. Other examples which happen to be much more common are white girls saying they won't date white guys but only date black guys, Asian girls who say they won't date Asian guys but only date white guys, and black girls who say they won't date black guys but only date white guys.
I'm not against their preferences since it's their choice but I won't hesitate to say to these people that it's weird and a bit racist to your own kind. I personally don't see how it is possible not to be attracted to your own race like these people say but that's just me. I could be wrong but I highly doubt I am.
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I consider this racism at its finest. Not your question. I mean the fact that some people are not attracted to their own race. The thing is that it's really not their "preference", it's what the media told them. What's the common denominator in all of these people? They only want to date WHITE guys. What's so good about white people? I am white and there is literally no benefit.
If you look in the mirror and your skin is black and you're not at least attracted to black people too, there's something wrong with you. Same goes for brown people. Same goes for Asian people. Same goes for white people. It's one thing to have a preference or to date your race AND people of another race, but only the other race?
Notice how I have not mentioned "culture". If someone is going to refrain from dating people from a certain culture - that is different from race.0