okay today is me and my boyfriends one month of being together and I asked him if he still liked me and he said he was offended and decided to break up with me because I asked that question. :( He said he needs time to think about what he wants. He says I make him a really happy boyfriend and I'm the best girlfriend he has had but its things. like this that scare me. I can't ask a simple question without him breaking it off with me and this was the first time I asked this question. I asked it because I dont want to get played and he's been busy lately going out smoking with his friends And drinking..
Am I in the wrong for asking that question? I'm really hurt right now :(
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I may be far left-field, but I think he may be afraid of commitment. I'm guessing that you told him it was your 1 month. Having been told that, he likely started thinking of the future at that point. When you asked him if he still liked you, he could have been offended (unlikely) but more likely he realized that being single was better.
If he has been busy going out smoking with his friends, and drinking, he likely realizes that being single is far easier, and he has the freedom of time. A lot of men enjoy the freedom of being single. He probably wasn't ready for a relationship. While you may make him happy, he wants his freedom too. Unfortunately, sometimes you can't have your cake and still eat it.1