ok so im "going out" with a guy. nice, good looking, but its been harder recently having convos as im busy with work and I've been away for a while so we text. im not as attracted to him as i was at first. then i met this other guy at work. he's really sweet and genuine and incredibly attractive. he really seems to get me. only problem is im 16 and he's 18 so not exactly legal. plus he's in college, im in high school, and i dont even know where he lives so i dont know if he lives nearby or not. he is just so very nice and he is so genuine like when we're talking about my life, he seems completely interested and not just being polite. the first guy is nice too but its just harder to have a convo with him and we both feel really awkward talking to each other (hes my age btw). i dont know. so i really like guy #2 but can't have him, which makes me seriously doubt my liking for this other guy even though we have a ton in common so im considering breaking up with him but i know as soon as i do, ill realize how good i had it/ be lonely and ill want him back. FTW do i do?
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It doesn't sound impossible. (I am confused by your numbers for the guys. I think they are backwards in your update, so I will call the younger one 'guy 1', and the older one 'guy 2' OK?).
It seems like you are just sort of meh about guy 1, you don't interact/communicate real well. Plus it seems like you lack chemistry.
Guy 2 on the otherhand , sounds like he covers everything that is lacking in your thing with guy 1. Don't worry about the age, many couples are 2 years apart, just don't do anything foolish that could get you guys is serious trouble.
You should persue who you feel like you interested in. Guy 2 sounds like the clear choice from what I got out of your question. Sounds like you should give it a shot, and not let him slip by.0