People always say to average/not so good looking guys that if they have a great personality you can still find someone.
But, what if you just have an average personality to go with your average looks? What do you do then?
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Beauty is subjective, so is personality. What I find as attractive might not be what another person finds as attractive. So that makes the whole "I'm average" thing slightly invalid as all people have their own preferences. I've thought guys were attractive who my friends didn't find attractive at all... and vica versa. People are so different in what they like that you can never really be sure. It's all about how you see yourself and how you want others to see you. If you walk around with a "I'm average" attitude then you'll live out what you think of yourself and actually just end up turning away more people but if you have some confidence, believe you're better than just "average" then you'll attractive more people. I also just want to mention lastly in conclusion that many girls also get told that a great personality can save them and deal with similar struggles. It's not just guys who have to deal with the opposite sex thinking they are average and getting turned down.. plenty of girls also get coined as average and then don't get guys either. Seen this happen all the time.1