I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and when we make out, it's usually in the boot of his car in the evening or night... But I have curfew. We usually kiss or kiss each other's neck or he kisses my chest but not too far down.
He is my first boyfriend and I am unsure what to do but we don't want to regret anything. What can I do? He is very gentle, cares and respects me so I think he is holding back and trying to take it slowly.
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Well... what do you want to do? That's kind of a big question, isn't it? :)
If you'd like to go for some form of sex, or getting each other to orgasm, then giving him a hand job and his fingering you is a good place to start with. You can work your way down your bodies slowly. One day you can be like "want to take off our shirts today? Maybe we can do more next week..." Then next week, you can plan for using your hands.
I recommend talking to him ahead of time - "hey, how'd you like to try getting me off with your hands next week some time... I'd like to try giving you a hand job." Then you're not springing anything on him, or yourself, and you can plan. Get a towel for him, and lotion, lube, or oil of some sort. You might want some lube of some sort too. And if you get really really wet, a towel for you, too!
If you want to try oral, you can work your way into it by playing around with your mouths down there, and finishing with your hands if mouths prove awkward ( you can always play more another day :) )
Have fun, and don't let your parents be the ones to wash sex-fluid-y towels :p0
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