Im not being cocky but it think im hot. well sexy. I am fully confident about myself, i love myselfand eeverything about me. But i always end up with an asshole who ruins it for me. Who always pulls me down. All my exs.( 3 previous long term relationships...2-3yrs long each ) had a female best friend i wasn't clingy yet i wasn't a control freak. But they all ended up liking their best friend, cheating on me. And honestly it feel like. my heart has been squeezed to their point of Enough. After my serious relationships i was overall done so i... sadly became a hoe, just started flirting with guys, had sex with 2 because that's all i thought i was in life. Every guy i talk to just wants ass. Just wants to feel me just wants to fuck me and leave. No one's is ever there to see the real me. I give my man space, it spoil him now and. then etc etc. But still that's all i feel i am. I stop messing round with guys now. It's been a. full yr since i stopped being i guess you can call a hoe. But i still get mad shit from. guys even guys i never met who doesn't even know my town or face or friends. I don't know what's ggoing on and it's killing me.
What should i do?
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You need to find a guy that is truly grateful to be with you. Someone who actually cares about your future and well being. A guy that won't call degrade you even when angry because instead he is trying to find solutions. Often people take each other for granted when they are constantly seeing each other every day. You should be telling each other how you feel and trying to work through your problems instead of just clashing, that's when things work. You need to find these qualities in a man and do your part as well. Also, if your really hot this shouldn't be much of an issue. Find a guy that attracts you in a subtle way instead of throwing himself at you. One who is focused on progressing in life for good, and not just a good time; for himself and his friends and family.
Furthermore, there are good people who simply want sex because they feel their current situation isn't stable or the right environment for a relationship. Such as myself. So if someone comes along and the sex is nice and you find that you like each other for much more than that you need to talk about creating a relationship. It's a beautiful thing.0