He wants me to flirt more sexually through text - after just one date?

Met a guy on tinder and really hit it off. Arranged a second date.

I have been flirting but not about sex as I like him and I don't want him to think I'll have sex with him quickly - we got on so well we even spoke about this on the date as I told him I've only slept with 2 people.

He complained today that I wasn't sexually flirting. I explained it's because I like him and we were being cheeky about the subject but it still annoyed me.

1. Does he have the right to complain?
2. Will I lose him if I don't sexually flirt?
3. Would he assume sex quicker if I sexually flirt? This is why I haven't.
4. I told him off but I don't know his motives anymore

He then said things like 'Maybe you should be yourself and do what comes naturally, regardless of how much you may or may not like me ;)'



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  • Mmm not good you shouldn’t feel the need to do anything to impress him. I wouldn't bother with him. Wait for him to fall on his own sword. Then scarper

  • Ehhh loser, NEXT.. maybe some girls will like that, but I am not impressed


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