I went out on a group trip today and met a really nice guy. We hit off and he asked me out. I told him that I'm dating someone but would love to be friends. He got a bit upset about that. He said he wanted to get to know me and hang out but that would be hard since I'm in a relationship.
But isn't friendship ok? Is it not possible to be friends with someone when you want to date them?
Most Helpful Guy
No friendship isn't good enough if a guy works up the courage to ask you out. You were honest in telling him you were taken. But, if you want to make enemies of most guys, or shall I say guys who have something on the ball and are confident, don't ever say "Let's be friends". When girls did that to me I told
them I had enough friends and that it was their loss not mine for not going out with me. I then said have
a nice life, turned my back and walked away. If they had hot friends, I used them to meet these girls. Otherwise, why would I want them around? I never, ever looked back or felt guilty. I'd say that about
90% of the time, they wanted to date me later. I made damn sure it got sexual in a hurry. No way I'd let some chick friend zone me. If they tried, I ignored them. Forever. Women hate being ignored. Especially by someone they once rejected.2
Most Helpful Girl
He wants to date you, have sex with you and maybe start a relationship with you if the first two things go well enough.
He's not looking for a friend or to be friendzoned. I mean I think you've been around long enough to figure out that when a guy asks you out and asks for your number, he's looking to date you, and is not looking for friendship.2
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