The guy I'm dating is really experienced and likes lots of physical contact with me.
I don't think what he likes is wrong or bad or abnormal even, but I'm not sure if I'm ready for it. I've never dated or had any kind of physical contact before with a guy.
We have been dating for roughly a month and we aren't sexually active or anything but we just kiss. He likes to touch my butt and stomach a lot.
He feels on my breasts too, usually through my shirt but he touched one of them under my bra a little when we were kissing. He touched lightly between my legs also.
Am I being weird for being a little uncomfortable with the breast under shirt and between the legs touching?
He knows I'm a virgin and that I won't have sex with him for a long time. He said he isn't trying to get me to have sex with him, but don't his actions suggest otherwise?
when I get a little awkward with him he told me he takes it personally because he thinks I don't feel comfortable with him and that I don't trust him.
He invests a lot of time in talking to me and spending time with me and I can tell he cares. I told him to take it easy with touching because I'm not used to it.
Am I being a prude or something? I'm not sure if I'm just awkward because everything is new to me or if it is weird for a guy to touch a girl like that after seeing her for a month. We aren't official even.
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You need to find a slower guy. He likes girls who are more open with their sexuality. He's used to girls who are mature and can handle physical contact. You need someone less experienced who takes things slower. A month is a long time for a lot of guys who don't have your comfort issues, but not for others who are less secure with themselves.0