I started using tinder 3wks ago. I started chating with some guys. But one in particular caught my attention. We seemed to like similar things and have similar values. He asked me out after 1wk. I agreed and we met last Sunday. We spent 5h just talking. First at the bar and then he drove to McDonald's so we could eat a nice ice cream (I told him how much I liked ice cream). Before the date ended he was telling me how much he was enjoying it and asking if we could meet again. I agreed.
For the second date, he wanted to show me his town and afterwards go to the cinema. So we met at his town last Thursday. He drove me around and told me about the historical buildings and stuff like that. Then we went to his place... where I had my favorite drink and candy waiting. We talked a bit and drove to the cinema. It was really fun with him. We really understand each other and often say the same thing at the same time.
After cinema we went to his place again. We watched a horror movie and we laughed a lot of each other jokes. He hugged me during the movie and we held hands. After saying to each other how odd it was to feel so comfortable with each other after such a short period. He then kissed me. I slept at his place because it was super late to go back home, but no sex. I told him I don't want to rush and he said this is to special for him so he will respect my will. We kissed before sleeping and we fell asleep hugging. During the night he kissed my arm. In the morning he smiled and said I am beautiful.
Then he drove me home. And I have the feeling he is now acting cold. He only writes to me if I write first. And he is really short in his answers.
I don't know what to think. This guy opened up to me and told me a lot about him. He said I am beautiful and that what we have is special. He treated me so nice and made me feel great. But now he is colder and he's back on tinder after 1wk not using it.
Was I played? I don't understand how someone could lie this much.
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I think he spoke the truth. he's probably confused i this is going to work since he opened up so much right at the beggining, but mainly he's somewhat disapointed that you didn't have sex. He seems to really like you but you sort of turne him off when you said you didn't want to rush things. You two have an amazing conexion and were on the 2nd date. Seriously? he's probably thinking you're not attracted to him now. At least thats what I would think.0