I am overweight but I'm not to an extreme amount. I'm doing everything I can to lose weight and I've been doing good. I'm doing this for multiple reasons partly because of guys. All of my friends are smaller than me and have boyfriends left and right. I don't act insecure and I try to be as confident as I can be, without seeming cocky. I've never even been kissed and I'm graduating high school this year. But I'm worried. Because I feel like a lot less guys go for mixed girls (like me) and especially overweight girls. So I'm wondering, if I never get down to a healthier, thinner size will guys want me? Does weight really matter to guys or what? Because if its not my weight then it must just be something else I'm doing wrong.
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everyone wants someone who takes care of themselves. size matters, definitely. I was 342lbs at 18 once and never got any attention, but suddenly I'm 210 and have muscles and I get many more looks. Just handle your business, improve yourself daily, and you'll notice the attention increase more and more. Good luck!1