So this guy that I've been seeing is a player he dates other women as well as me... but I don't play his games I don't text him all of the time I don't tell him I love him and I don't chase him... we have been like this for 5 months... I have fallen for him and recently I decided to just let him go because I can't handle the hot and cold cycle and he has always told me that he loves me but never makes a commitment but when I backed away he then told me that he loves me and wants to settle down... we. were fine for a week or two but now he's backing off again... he's always hot and cold... what do I do?
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This is what has happened to me just recently and also to a bunch of other friends, and honestly you are just setting yourself up to get hurt. You know his games, he is showing it, and it is right in front of your face. Yes, you may love him, but this isn't love... You're probably not the only girl he tells that he loves them to... It sucks, and all you want is the other person to love you back. but if they can't commit then its not worth the pain int he end..4