I'm a black male, and i go to a university where the majority are white... I've always dated a white girl or an Asian girl, not that i was picky but mostly because of where i was raised... ever since i heard one white guy call my friend and I "nig*ers" at night, everything came crashing down, like i don't even have the confidence to approach girls (other race) at parties anymore, don't even like going to parties anymore because i think the white girls wouldn't be interested... how can I overcome this?
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It does matter for many, it does not matter for some. you do not have the right to say those who consider race in dating are wrong, you do not have the right to say those who do not consider race are wrong. you do not have the right to accuse one to racism, you do not have the right to consider the other open minded and accuse the other group to being close minded using the assumption, as there is free will and free choice and everyone chooses how he or she wants to live, whether wants to have other standards than love in dating and marriage or not, whether or not wants to follow traditions and the way of his fathers and culture, and whether or not want to accept you as an individual fit for him or her by any reason. you only care for your preference and those who happen to prefer you by any reason and leave the others who do not prefer you by any reason with their own preferences and free choice.