Stats: Guy i work with (both of us mid 20s) he is leaving the company soon. We have also been friends for 4 years.
We contact each other a lot. we play a game where we send each other a word of the day, and funny pictures.
We know each others friends very well. (he does not have a similar relationship with anyone else at the work).
He went on a date last night and i heard he kissed her (he did not mention to me about the date but told everyone else/normally he does not disclose this stuff at work).
before this the dynamic in our friendship had changed. Over the last 6 months there has been obvious flirting, signs of jealousy etc on both sides (Mutual Work friends have pointed it out to me, who know that i like him).
he gives you more one-on-one attention than others during group gatherings, he suggests that the two of us hang out together by ourselves yet seems disappointed when i don't.
he seems disappointed when i don't remember things i tell him about his past. he also seemed disappointed that we would not cross paths at work this week before he left on his short trip. A friend of his asked a year ago if i liked him.
Also he is always touching me at work.
What seems to be going on here.
He is not the type to be a player i know him well, so is it a matter of he's given up waiting for me to make a move? i am not an obvious flirt but my friends have said lately it seems like it.
He has invited me out for drinks a few times. We are getting drinks together next week when he returns from a business trip?
The guy said "Don't tell Lauren, she will get jealous" she changed the topic.
I looked back over the last couple of years and noticed a trend.
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So what's your question? If you're wondering what his problem is it sounds like he's starting to think you're not as in to him as he is in you - since being disappointed you can't remember certain things about him that anyone with as much interest in someone would. Therefore, he's testing you to see the kind of reaction you give in an attempt to figure out how you really feel about him. So if you like this guy and hope to be more than just friends some day, then put more effort into showing him so he will know and not have to resort to such head games.0
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