This girl and I used to talk a lot, and now we hardly talk at all. She called me a few days ago asking me a question about getting something as if we were making a decision to get something together (internet for her house). But I haven't spoken to her since. I know her sister is in from out of town. Should I text her to see how she's doing and how things are going?
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communication should be both ways: if there's only one person doing all the work all the time, something's not right. i've been there, both sides: the 'chased' and the 'chaser'. in the first case, it was probably just the immature, insecure old me wanting to see how much of an effort a guy is prepared to endure to get my attention. truth is, i wasn't even that 'interested' myself. being on the other side, aka 'the chaser', also made me realize how much of a spoiled princess i must have come across to some of my ex's in the past, when i was then faced with a 'spoiled prince'. as you can see, balance for the win.0