This is what seems to be happening on this site and other forums too. If we even make a slight suggestion on something, immediately we get labelled or get a couple males already trying to attack us with by calling us feminists or ''Oh because of feminism this and that''. Basically it has come to the point that I'm scared of even saying anything without getting called a feminist and in such a bad way.
For instance, there was a thread once about if it's right to split the bill all the time. When I only suggested that it would be great to also take turns once in a while (for instance, I can pay one day and another day he does) suddenly I get those replies of ''So you want a guy still paying, etc'' even when I clearly stated that I would also be paying in certain dates too. I don't want my future relationship to always be seen as a team-work but also romantic and I see nothing wrong with taking turns.
Also, when I read about a girl's story about a bf taking her to McDonalds on her b-day and he wasn't broken at all, suddenly that poor girl gets labelled that. Sorry but I wouldn't do that to a bf's b-day either. What does feminism has to do with having basic manner and simply like sharing?
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feminists generally support equality... it's because such men get threatened... real men don't ;)1