So I never have a boyfriend. I dated one guy which is a whole another story. But everyone tells me when you don't expect it, love will come. They say not to look for it and it's better to wait for it to come. So is it true?
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Depends who you ask I guess. the married 20 something could very well hold this view. The 45 yo spinster might not be so optimistic.
In the end, it's all a gamble. But I think the saying comes from the fact that you have more chance of meeting a good match by just doing the things that you like and let things grow organically as opposed to force them. But everyone definitely isn't that lucky.0