The way this girl has just done me, it has just hurt me so bad and made me so mad. I'm not bragging on myself but I am a pretty amazing guy. But the way I've been done by her after the way I treated her it just makes me more and more upset every time I think about it. We dated for a month, she then broke it off with me saying she needed time for herself and and needed her space. She was just getting out of a 4 1/2 year relationship and she told me the guy treated her like shit and was just sick of it and wanted a good guy in her life, and ta da she came running to me. After she broke it off with me she'd text me lIke every week or two telling me how much she missed me and all this stuff. Then after the 3rd or 4th time she did it I was like well I'd love to do something with you again if you really want to and she said she'd love to, so we made plans for that weekend. 3 days later she text me saying she couldn't go cause she'd been talking to her ex on and off again. After that she still text me one or two times saying how she missed me and shit. And I finally told her what I thought. This past week was our yearly annual county fair where we live. She ran into my mom and sister at the fair one night. Later that night she text me saying she saw them and was hoping she'd run into me at the fair. Well I told her I was still there. Then she pretty much snapped on me saying well I wish I'd known you were there so you could of helped me find my car I looked for for an hour. I snapped back and said well why don't you get your boyfriend to help you since you're back with him and she then said he's not my boyfriend and if you really wanna know, he left my ass at the fair. I preceded to tell her well its your problem you keep putting up with that and she says I don't know what to do. anymore and all this stuff like I'm supposed to feel. sorry for her. Like what do I do? It might sound crazy but I'd love to have this girl but she keeps going back to this ass.
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After her ex left her at that place she was full of rage and stress which unfortunately she racted back on you, you couldn`t have known that she was left there by that douche before you snapped back. She may felt so much pressure after your comment that she feels like she`s alone and that she might go back to her ex who could give her the feeling she`s not alone which you need to prevent.
Visit her sometime and talk it out, or better yet go to her and persuade her to come to your home to talk it over, have your mom join the conversation and have her tell that girl to leave that douche behind and let her tell that girl what an awesome person you can be if she just tries to talk with you about her problems.
A mother figure might just be that what she needs to relieve the stress and pressure that`s on her and she already met her on the fair which makes the conversation go more smoothly without a stranger helping her out.
Just take up her time to relieve herself, take her in your arms and let her forget about that A$$hole by giving her your full support.0
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