Ways to tell if a guy has a boner and is really turned on by you:
1. He’s covering his crotch. If he’s got a hand or anything over his crotch without having a specific reason for it to be there, he probably has a boner. This is particularly true if he’s wearing sweatpants or skinny jeans.
2. He’s keeping you away from his area. Sometimes having a boner is embarrassing for a guy. Therefore, he’ll try to do anything he can so you don’t know he has one. And that includes making sure there’s no way you feel it. So he’ll keep you at arms length and even move away from you if you’re getting too close to that area.
3. You can see a bulge. Some pants just can’t hide a boner no matter what – no matter how small or big the guy is. You may just be able to see his boner in his pants even if he’s unaware you can.
4. He keeps adjusting himself. Believe it or not, boners aren’t really comfortable to have in restricting clothing. This will cause a guy to shift around and even adjust himself openly when you’re around.
5. He moves to sit with his knees up. This is something a guy will do to hide the fact that he actually has a boner. When he randomly sits with his knees up, it could be because he’s trying to conceal something in his pants.
6. His hands are in his pockets. Another way guys try to hide their boners is by holding it down with their own hands. However, this would look far too obvious if he did it on the outside of his pants.
Fuck yeah I get turned on.
If a girl kisses me on the cheek or something, it's flattering, but I don't usually get turned on by something small like that, unless I'm really into the girl. Although if the girl is kissing me on the neck or tonguing my ear or pulling on my lobe with her teeth, maybe giving me a passionate french kiss you can bet your hot ass I'm getting a huge fucking boner. I love being kissed, and if she's really into it I either might lose control and lay back absorbing it all in or I might just go crazy and start giving back exactly what I've been given and more. Usually the latter.
Anyway if you want to know if a guy is turned on, you can generally figure that out pretty easily. His breathing might get heavier, he might look at you a little different, maybe moan a little bit. If you really want to be sure you can always try putting your hands on his crotch. Touching him there. If you're doing it through the pants there should be a noticeable bulge and depending on how big his dick is, you might even be able to see it. If you want you can also try putting your hands down his pants. At that point you wouldn't have much problem telling if he's turned on. He'd be rock hard.
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There are several simple signals that can be seen easily. If he is wearing tight fitting pants, you can see boner, (Just like Camel-hump for girls). His voice will be heavy and sexy, He will have more saliva in mouth and he will be eagerly looking at you - his sex-partner - or for whom he is turned on. He will also do something funny to give his sex-partner signal for invitation. In short, if he is your man - you will understand it soon.
Im sure that they can. I mean you can just sit next a guy and he'll get hard. But I have noticed that a guy is turned on if you agree sitting close to him and he his breathing funny like harder and kind of faster, if he continues to rub you like rubbing your hip, if he fidgets alot, and of course the bulge in his pants. If you can't see it you can definitely feel it if you sit on top of him or cuddling really close.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Probably by the way he seems to go into some sort of a trance as he looks at you and starts being lost for words and starts forgetting the conversation because his thoughts are shifting back and forth to his erection. He'll be looking at you more and his face might get flushed and you should notice sometime that his eyes seem to be trying to look at himself. He'll definitely have the look of a naughty little boy. :-P His whole face will look kinda off kilter. lol!
His eyes will be trying to look at himself... lol! haha thanks
Yes, please, if a guy is attracted to you, breathing on him or smiling at him might be enough to get him going, lol. French kissing, oh yes, that is highly likely to turn him on. And, yes, the more in to the kissing he is getting, the more likely it is that he is getting turned on.
it depends what type of kissing but yes a lot of times it can turn me on when with my girlfriend kissing :) usually I let her know by just rubbing her with my erection lol but I think she can tell by the hands moving along her body and enjoying themselves :P
if he suddenly has something in his pocket. I'm sure he's turned on by then.
He'll have an erection and will try to hide it. Mostly by fidgeting, putting hands in pockets and "rearranging" downstairs and also by angling his body so that it isn't noticeable.
If by turned on, you mean particularly and specifically, and directly focusing his sexual attention toward you, then he is also going to focus on you, and will be attentive in various ways. It's pleasurable for a guy to get turned on, his cock is hard (that's where the term horny comes from), and he wants to be close to his girl.
Yes i mean those signs, where people are not dating and not planning anything sexual, but the guys has a crush on girl and gets horny So i wanted to know the signs, because majority only comments on hard cock, but i guess there must be some other signs, right?
There is a blurring of behavior between being horny, turned on, and being particularly interested in a girl. The three will result in the guy being more interested, being closer, more attentive, more focused on you, increased touching, increased interested in what you are saying, etc.
Ok So what if he sits tlo close, nearly on my top lol brushes anf bumps into me a lot
Fidgeting. Adjusting. Difficulty speaking. Difficulty thinking. Abnormal gait. Sensitivity to touch. Glib.
Not many girls know this but when a guy gets turned on he prostate enlarges. In many cases it forces a little bit of poop to come out similar to pre cum. So if he smells like shit, he's getting turned on ;)
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Look right below his beltline ;)
X-D I said apart from the obvious! And in a bar or somewhere its kinda darkish...
I think anyone male in their right mind would go out of their way to NOT get turned on in public, for obvious reasons. Not judging, just saying a boner might stay around for a while, so you really don't want it showing up unwantingly. I guess there are those who might....
I think Englevakten completely missed the point and overanalyzed a simple comment into the realm of retardedness.
I don't know if you can tell just by looking at his face other than having an embarrassed look, but if a guy is turned on and has an erection you can tell by the bulge in his pants.
If he tucks his erection under his belt (from Superbad), then it may be difficult to tell. 😂
Also depending on the location. He could be trying to hide his hard one. So when he somehow adjusts his clothes. That's the only thing I can think of.
He'll have a hard on
You dont say... Anything else?
His eyes will dilate
Look at his dick if he is up then he wants you so bad
investigate for a roll of quarters in his pocket
pants pants pants
He'll want more with what you are doing
If he has a boner he's turned on
he's gonna linger around you, try talking more often, and won't stop talking to you if you start
Eyes glow?
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