*This question isn't referring to those who don't believe in "sex before marriage" or religious reasons that conflict with such.
Its not a big issue with me; the most important things in a relationship to me are compatibility, honesty, affection, and fidelity.
I don't care about how many guys a woman has slept with as long as she's honest. Her sexual experience isn't a plus or a minus, in a long term relationship either.
I don't understand why some men won't stay with a woman because she's had too many sexual partners that she was honest about. If she's a good person of high character then why are some men so adamant about being with a girl who is a virgin or inexperienced. Why does this matter to non-religious men?
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I think they're like that because some men don't want to know that what their girl has done to them has done to someone else. Everyone wants to feel special. You know? And virgin girls are special. They haven't had an experience before. While women who've slept with just say 15 men, it could be intimidating. Or you just simply don't want someone whos slept around a lot. And by that you might feel she's not committed or could lose interest in you faster.2