Most Helpful Guy
That is exactly the kind of girl I like. Today's idea of a partnership is more about the man looking out for himself, and the woman looking out for herself. That isn't a real partnership. It is just two selfish people looking out for themselves.
I don't think that taking care of your man or woman, is acting like a father or mother. That is just what a real partnership is suppose to be like. This is why gender roles have been so popular throughout the world. While people should be free to break out of their gender role if they want, there should be no shame in wanting to follow gender roles either. That is simply your personal choice, on how you want to live your life.
Most Helpful Girl
There are lots of girls like you. It's actually a "kink" of sorts that can be (but doesn't have to be) entirely sexual. Where the dominant calls himself "Daddy" and the submissive calls herself "Little". The man is usually quite a bit older than his partner, but he doesn't have to be.
You can join a site named Fetlife where people who are into kinky stuff like to talk to those who share their interests. There's lots of p*rn on it, but it's just a forum and a social network, like Facebook for perverts. xD For most of people in Daddy/little relationships it extends beyond the bedroom into real life and they basically live in their roles (what you describe you want). There is nothing wrong with it, whatever floats your boat.
I myself am not into it, since it makes me think of my dad and I feel like vomiting. Dx
But I ended up there since I'm into regular D/s thing, also bondage and some other stuff. Lots of material for research and links to other places to explain stuff to you.
Just watch out for creeps. Men might message you, so be careful if you ever decide to meet up with anyone you talk to there. Try to get to know some regulars and befriend someone you can trust on there before deciding to meet guys. (If you do.)