The first time going out for lunch?

So tomorrow im going to lunch with this girl for the first time and i dont want it to be awkward what should i do? Talk about? Sruff like that..


Most Helpful Girl

  • First thing I would do is think about the fact that you are both just people, don;t get intimidated by her and try to be yourself. Talk about a show you saw last night, does she like movies or shows or a certain kind of music? maybe you can recommend something to her. Sometimes conversation will just flow naturally, if it does just go witrh it. Make sure you're not doing all the talking though, and asking questions always helps... don't interrogate about her life though lol good luck!


Most Helpful Guy

  • If you two don't automatically converse then maybe consider another girl?
    Hey I might go out for lunch this week with my crush who I've liked for 9 months too.

    Okay, if you're really out of ideas:
    Ask her to tell you a story. Ask her to ask you questions. Ask her what she wants to talk about. Ask her what's on her mind; ask her what she's thinking about. Ask her about herself. Ask her about her opinion on something. Ask her about anything about her, because girls love to talk about themselves, and it's nice to show that you care about what she says and thinks.

    Maybe if it's silent at the very beginning, say "so, what is happening in the life of [her name]."


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What Girls Said 2

  • Try to look cool and nice.
    Dont look to excited but try to keep the conversation in a nice way.
    Dress casual and cool.
    Compliment her,,, dont tell her blue jokes,,, dont talk about ur previous relationships,,, dont try to kiss her lips if its the first date.
    Try to know more about her and knowing her traits such as her favorites music band,,, food etc.

  • Read up on current events and some interesting stories so you have something to talk about. Also prepare some questions you can ask her if there's any awkward silences


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